r/Music 14d ago

Dave Grohl admits cheating on wife as he confirms new baby article

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/breaking-dave-grohl-admits-cheating-33640293
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u/WaltWoodman 14d ago

People want to believe in the good of other people. I don’t think that’s a terrible thing.

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

It’s bad when we overwhelmingly agree someone is great and then shower them with praise, money, etc. and protect them from deserved criticism. We then elevate not the best people to positions of extreme power 

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u/WaltWoodman 14d ago

I’d agree with that. Deification and lionization are generally pretty bad.

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

Yes! Well said and more succinctly put 

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u/Salty-Obligation-603 14d ago

Nobody here is protecting him from deserved criticism. And nobody "showered him with money" because they thought he was nice. People paid money for music and concert experiences

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

Actually plenty of folks in the comments are catching bullets for him for no reason. Dude cheated on his wife, which is objectively shitty. He has also benefited and profited from his positive rep over all these years. Nothing exists in a vaccuum and your argument is not only stupid, it's made in bad faith. Byee.

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u/Salty-Obligation-603 14d ago

Nothing exists in a vaccuum and your argument is not only stupid, it's made in bad faith. Byee.

If you're young or simple enough to think nuance is "stupid" or "in bad faith," you're probably also too young to know that his biggest hit songs were written about and/or with previous affair partners he's had. He's never hidden this part of himself

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u/seattt 14d ago

People only want to believe in the good of people with wealth or higher status. Ask them if they believe in the good of people with lesser wealth or whom they perceive as lower status and then tell me how much people in the good of other people.

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u/nightraindream 14d ago

People subscribe to the just world hypothesis because realising that life sucks and good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people makes people uncomfortable.

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u/KublaiDon 14d ago

Yeah I agree with that, I don’t think people should make them into amazing people or horrible people… reading into some tiny interaction just doesn’t mean anything though

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u/Additional_Essay 14d ago

We just don't know most people all that intimately, but definitely not celebrities.

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u/ButterscotchExactly 14d ago

We are in 2024 my friend, you make a mistake and you're a scumbag now and always have been. Especially if you've made more than one mistake!

In fact, this very post will likely be considered me condoning every bad thing Dave ever did.

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u/PO_Boxer 14d ago

Burn her!

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u/LambofWar 14d ago

It's a naïve thing

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u/UnicronSaidNo 14d ago

It's not that it is a terrible thing... it's just a naive thing. The average person is pretty shit.

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u/cozypow 14d ago

If the average person was bad then humanity wouldn’t have gotten this far without collapsing

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u/Smash_4dams 14d ago

That's why humanity invented alcohol and drugs.

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u/WhatsMyAgeAgain-182 14d ago

Take it from me — its a terrible thing. Why? Because most people are vile.

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u/WaltWoodman 14d ago

I would disagree but you’re more than welcome to believe that.