r/MadeMeSmile • u/astral12 • Jul 29 '24

Little girl performs by herself Good Vibes

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u/PacquiaoFreeHousing Jul 29 '24

I hope my kids are as resilient as that little girl

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u/Putrid-Effective-570 Jul 29 '24

Best hope so. I feel for the boy. That had to be a whole living nightmare from the moment he froze up.

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u/Primary-Border8536 Jul 29 '24

Idk why a parent or teacher didn't go and help him or anything

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u/mildobamacare Jul 29 '24

Learning to overcome is part of life. It looks to me like hes learned crying solves problems

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u/Technical-Outside408 Jul 29 '24

How do you figure?

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u/mildobamacare Jul 29 '24

Because you're going to be required to do things in life you don't want to do, and shutting down and crying is never the answer. You don't learn to overcome by having mommy rush in and fix it. This is, unironically, really good parenting.

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u/uselessta16283 Jul 29 '24

No it fucking isn’t this is how you develop permanent trust issues. This shit would not work on people with social anxiety and autism.

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u/Boba_Fett_boii Jul 29 '24

100% facts! Glad to see not everyone here has gone insane.

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u/Boba_Fett_boii Jul 29 '24

Hmm, I hadn't thought of that, I wonder if their reactions would have been different if the genders were reversed? Based on reactions I've seen on the internet to similar situations, if the girl was crying and the boy kept dancing, people might start blaming the boy for not helping their dance partner.

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u/Primary-Border8536 Jul 29 '24

I honest to god can't believe the amount of people that are treating this literal 4 year old like he's a big kid. A bit of encouragement could help. Not every kid is the same. I used to be so scared and still as an adult sweat and feel like I'm gonna pass out when I am on stage in front of people. I shake I can't deal with it. This is just cruel

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u/NoriOnline Jul 29 '24

autism is one thing but social anxiety can be overcome, stop enabling

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u/uselessta16283 Jul 29 '24

Its not “enabling” hes a fucking toddler

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u/NoriOnline Jul 29 '24

ok but this toddler will grow up & continue on this way if he’s coddled everytime he faces adversity

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u/uselessta16283 Jul 29 '24

You are making a lot of assumptions about someone you don’t know. Men are allowed to cry too.

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u/NoriOnline Jul 29 '24

yes men are allowed to cry, that’s an old argument im a man & i cry at times like all normal humans but eventually you have to stop the tears and pick yourself up because no one’s coming to save you everytime. i understand that he’s still a child but he has to learn that this behavior isn’t acceptable and will only cause him more pain in his future.

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