r/MadeMeSmile • u/astral12 • Jul 29 '24

Little girl performs by herself Good Vibes

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u/PacquiaoFreeHousing Jul 29 '24

I hope my kids are as resilient as that little girl

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u/Putrid-Effective-570 Jul 29 '24

Best hope so. I feel for the boy. That had to be a whole living nightmare from the moment he froze up.

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u/Primary-Border8536 Jul 29 '24

Idk why a parent or teacher didn't go and help him or anything

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u/mildobamacare Jul 29 '24

Learning to overcome is part of life. It looks to me like hes learned crying solves problems

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u/Technical-Outside408 Jul 29 '24

How do you figure?

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u/mildobamacare Jul 29 '24

Because you're going to be required to do things in life you don't want to do, and shutting down and crying is never the answer. You don't learn to overcome by having mommy rush in and fix it. This is, unironically, really good parenting.

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u/Death_Snek Jul 29 '24

I agree with you with not being overprotective with children. But I think that these kind of style of teaching must be done with caution. For example, maybe if you know that the child doesn’t like or is afraid of stages. Maybe you could find a way for him to fit there without being that closer to the crowd.

People here are talking as if they are the supreme rulers of how a mind work. But hey, there are children that will see this as a experience and push themselves harder to overcome this. It’s not impossible. A good father and mother should have a conversation and explain that what happened is ok, but he needs to learn from this.

I was a very timid child in a outward and expressive country and people and culture. I’m from Brazil. I had to overcome things and yeah, from an early age and my parents never did take me away from those challenges, but they were always with me whenever I failed or I succeeded. Showing support!

In the end, I overcame this and now I can talk in public no problem.